Anonymous asked: How do you deal with a breakup
well you asked the right person because i’m currently in the process of dealing with one myself. what’s really been working for me so far is surrounding myself with people who genuinely care about me. go outta your comfort zone. get a piercing, do something active, whatever. stay home alone for AS LITTLE as possible because trust me, when you’re alone, that’s when things get ugly. and when you absolutely have to be home at night, watch a show or call somebody up on the phone and talk to them until you get sleepy so you can fall asleep without having to deal with the over-thinking and blah blah..
also, learn to accept why things happened. i honestly believe that’s the most important step in getting over a relationship because you first must understand why the break up occurred in order to move past it. once you do that, i feel like it becomes much easier to leave the past where it’s meant to be and to move on with your life.
ofc it’s only been a couple days into my breakup so my list is incomplete, but if you ask me again in a couple weeks, i’ll probably have more to add :) best wishes to you.